Who Sits In Your Front Row?

Susan Taylor, former editor of Essence magazine, said: "Everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives" You know you should not be at the forefront, because when. you are in his presence or when you leave, you feel diminished, deflation or unworthy, as you're not quite These people are like heavy stones around your neck - a drain on your time, your energy, your. mind.

Therefore, I ask you, "Who is sitting in the front seat of your life? Are you busy with people we love, nurture, and support you? Or is it busy detractors, the murderers of dreams, and negative Neds? Have you consciously chose this floor plan or take what fate your path?

Regardless of how these people have taken the front seat; you're in the driver's seat and can rearrange the seats. You get to decide who sits on the forehead; and ending at the rear. Take a long hard look at your life and the people around him, the front seat. Do you need to rearrange the seats?

Arrange your seating plan, ask yourself if people bring their rank, have or offer the following attributes:

Privacy. In the first row, persons who provide need closeness, warmth and acceptance - people with whom you can freely express their feelings without fear of repercussion all, ridicule or in. These are people who love and believe in you unconditionally.

Ego-motion. People sitting in the first row of your life should make you feel good about yourself. They help increase self-esteem and sense of self. With them feel important, capable, strong and special.

A strong sense of self. Because these people feel good, it is easy for them to be in favor of you. They have hopes and dreams of their own, and their goals and objectives, it may even be similar to yours. These people sharing ideas, information and experiences, and can dream together.

Support in good times and in bad. These people are there when times are good and when times are not so good. They are there to cheer and when you get when you're down. They are there, standing by your side in times of crisis.

Challenges. These people challenge them to aim higher, to make a leap of faith and try new things. Challenge also encouraging him to think outside the box ... question their decisions to ensure as much as possible, you made ​​the best decision.

As everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in your life, it's up to you to take action to change the picture of your seat life; delete, or remote position, people who are not in line with your values​​, vision, goals and dreams.